My wedding date is August 18th. I asked on the RSVP to be returned by July 28th (I wish I had put a week earlier...) When is it ok to start checking with people who haven't replied to find out their response? I know they still have time, and they are still coming in the mail (literally ONE a DAY, it's killing me!)... but I just wanted your opinions on how soon I could start the email/phone call process?
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Re: When to start calling missing RSVPs???
I did this because all of our RSVPs were online website/byphone/email, so there was nothing to mail back.
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[QUOTE]well i am not calling anyone to check so I am no help
Posted by kthowell[/QUOTE]
what are you going to do if people don't rsvp and then show up?
You should not calll before the RSVP date. We have a date of July 1st for RSVPs and do not plan on calling anybody until after the 4th. We still need RSVPs from about 8 parties. I'm not worried about it at this point. They have another week before the RSVP date passes.
It would be rude to contact guests before the RSVP date has passed. You gave them a deadline they are not yet late, and are not being rude by not responding. Some people just procrastinate.
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