Hey has anybody else had this happen one of my best friends is my bm and i had asked her in march to be my bm ive tried getting time to spend with her but everytime i ask her to hangout shes to busy after like a month of asking i stopped asking. I hadn't seen her in like 6months before because she was on a missions trip out of the country. Should I be pissed the thing is shes also friends with my brother and does stuff with him after work. I used to work there but i have since left and went to another job. I have to get up earlly so i usually try be in bed by no later than 10 which i have told her I would stay up later to hang or change my schedule around. My fiance says dont have her as a bm just as attendant i would feel bad telling her this. So idk someone please help me! lol