FI and I have been discussing music. We are a fun couple with very outgoing personalities so we are thinking band. family on the other hand thinks it is a bad idea and we should just do a DJ. The band we want has done weddings and we are actually friends with them, so we had the idea of having the band perform some parts of the reception mainly the dancing and the lead singer who is also a DJ, DJ the important dances eg. father/daughter dance first dance etc. I am just worried it will end up being to much of a mess in the end. We want the band to be able to enjoy the reception since they are our friends as well. UGH