I'm opposed to real flowers because while they are gorgeous, they don't last very long and I want to be able to display my bouquet in a vase on my dresser or entertainment stand with wedding pics so I am just going with silk flowers. I have been back and forth on bridesmaids bouquets and I'm flirting with the idea of them carrying a single long stem rose. Not sure whether or not they would be real or not, but if I go with silk flowers, I thought that each of my bridesmaids could decorate their own stem and leaves. Using little crystals, glitter, ribbon, or whatever else as long as it's not gaudy. What does everyone think?