So my bio dad came on saturday with my step mother and half brother/half sister. We went to get the boys fitted for their tuxes then we had everyone over our house for pizza afterwards. So my dad decides to tell me in front of everyone that he thinks it's gay for him and my step dad to both walk me down the aisle. So he said to just have my step dad do it. Then he will just wait for me at the end of the aisle to actually give me away.
I pretty much told him that I do not want that. He said well I feel really uncomfortable with both of us walking you down the aisle. His only reasoning is that it looks dumb and "gay". He is so immature. Then later when he was leaving he said that it is my day and he will do whatever makes me happy. But I could tell that his words were not sincere.
I called my mother up crying if I had it my way my step dad would be the one walking me down the aisle and giving me away. I have no feelings towards my father. My parents got divorced when I was 15 months old. I see my father about 2-3 times a year for dinner. I decided I am going to pretty much give him the ultimatum that you either both walk me down the aisle and say "we do" when the reverend asks who gives her away. Or my dad can just be seated and not participate at all. I am shocked that he thinks he deserves to be the one to give me away when he has not been a father to me for the past 30 years. I think that he truly thinks that he was a great dad to us when he was pretty much non existent.
Sorry I had to vent I was hysterical saturday night once he left our house. We probably won't be seeing him again until the actual rehearsal.