So my FI and I got into a debate last night on whether it was appropriate to use a modern song (with words) during the ceremony. I would like to play Train's Marry Me (acoustic version) while my bridesmaids and myself walk down the aisle. My FI is concerned that the DJ will have to blare the music so the lyrics can be heard (we're having an outside wedding). Processional music should be instrumental because it's supposed to serve as background music, while the focus will be on the bridesmaids, my dad and myself. He's also concerned that people who don't know the song, and therefore it's lyrics, won't understand why we would be playing that particular song. Which may cause confusion and ultimately, again, become distracting.
I truly do think he has valid points. With that said, I feel that since we're not having a "typical" church wedding we're able to stray from the wedding march or Pachelbel Canon and do something unique and modern.
Thoughts, opinions?