How do I tell a friend she isn't in my wedding?

Elizybeth

  I have this friend that invited herself to in my wedding. I still have not asked her to be in my wedding. But since, years ago we were talking about being in each others wedding. The thing is I am not close to her at all and do not want her in my wedding. Not only that but, the place we have chosen for the wedding is only big enough for three on each side not four. She was NEVER asked by me to be in the wedding.. Well not going to repeat again! HELP!! PLEASE

Elizybeth

True I can try it that way.. though it would be true not sure I want to use the I can only have three stand up with me. It is the truth, however, i am not sure she would believe me.

madsenm2

Why not tell her that while you appreciate her willingness to be in the wedding; but the location is too small to have here there.  Tell her you want her to be a "part" of the wedding and than give her something like manning the guest book, seating people, being an usher, or something. 
Or you can always go with the "my partner only has 3 grooms men and I dont want it to be off balanced" excuse

DrymallaWedding

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[QUOTE]Why not tell her that while you appreciate her willingness to be in the wedding; but the location is too small to have here there.  Tell her you want her to be a "part" of the wedding and than give her something like manning the guest book, seating people, being an usher, or something.  Or you can always go with the "my partner only has 3 grooms men and I dont want it to be off balanced" excuse
Posted by madsenm2[/QUOTE]

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