I believe wedding invitations should go out 6-8 weeks before the wedding for in town guests.
When are shower invitations sent? Are showers a month before a wedding or less? Can you receive a shower invitation before the wedding invitation if you have sent save the date cards. (my cousin actually did that but was it right?)
Any advice with this is appreciated. I am trying to learn what is normally done and what is acceptable even if not normally done. I really want to do things right.