I just had my shower this past Sunday and was confused about thank you wording. A few guests were unable to attend the shower but sent gifts along with other guests who were attending. Should my thank you card to them say I missed them at the shower and then thank them for the gift, or just say thank you for the gift? I don't want to make anyone feel bad that they couldn't make it but don't want them to think the crowd was so big that I just assumed they were there. Maybe I am thinking too much into this? I just don't want to offend anyone and make sure they know I am glad they were thinking of me!