I've noticed alot of brides on here that are not comfortable with their fiances spending time at a strip club with some strange woman grinding on them for their bachelor parties. I, for one, am in agreement with them....I feel the same way. I think it is disrespectful to the bride if she isnt comfortable with it. If she doesnt care then no big deal. But I wanted to clarify a couple of things that others have been posting in response to these women. I dont know if any of you have ever been to a strip club, but the "no touching" rule is a crock!! There is ALOT of inappropriate touching that goes on, especially if the stripper thinks that the guy is attractive. The first time I ever went to a strip club (to see what it was all about) I saw a woman go up and lay on the stage and pull her shirt up while the stripper came over and started sucking on her nipples! It was disgusting! My cousin also used to be a stripper and gave me the low down on what REALLY goes on in those places. As for strippers that come to your house......if you think all they do is dance and leave, your wrong. If their is more than 1 stripper, they are performing live porn for the guys. I only speak from my own personal experience, but these are the reasons why I am totally against the whole stripper thing in the first place. So, women, if you are uncomfortable with it, speak up! Dont feel like your gonna be a "Debbie Downer" and "controlling" if you are uncomfortable with it. Your fiance should respect how you feel, after all you are about to be married! If he wasnt frequenting strip clubs before, a bachelor party is really no reason to now. You can trust your fiance but dont trust a stripper who will do just about anything for tips.