The one thing I hate about bachelor parties is that they always call it the guys last night. It really isn't since its never really the night before the wedding, and you are already committed to marry someone, so you shouldn't be doing anything that night that you know would be wrong when you are married. I told FI that he could not go to Vegas, and that he was not allowed to touch any strippers. Telling him he couldn't have them would be pointless because around here thats what all the stags are. His party is at local VFW where they rent out the hall and have food and kegs and raffles and stuff, and yes strippers. But the strippers come for an hour and have their own bodyguards that keep anyone from touching them. And from what my guy friends have told me, the strippers really only spend a few minutes on the groom because they know that they won't make any money off him. Also, the stag parties here are really about making money for the wedding, and everyone is charged, so tons of guys go to them and pay to get in for beer and food. So needless to say, my family will be there (including my dad), so I just remind him of that if he feels the need to do something stupid! And FI can drink, and his friends do a great job of encouraging it, so while the plan is to go out to bars after that, theres a big part of me that thinks he will be passed out before his party ends and in the back of my dads jeep! My bachelorette is the same night (strategically planned-I don't want to be sitting at home thinking about whats going on at his). We rented rooms at a really nice mansion hotel downtown, and are going to a nice dinner and the bars around there with my BMs and other friends and family. I don't want strippers, cause I really think guy strippers are just awkward. But I plan on just getting drunk and enjoying my night with my girls. Oh and we are also doing the full day with our parties. I'm doing a pool day with my girls before the hotel and stuff, and he is either boating/fishing or playing golf with the guys before.
I am going to Vegas for my bachelorette party, and he's going for his bachelor party 2 weeks later.Not concerned about his itinerary for his guy weekend, as he's gone to Vegas multiple times with his friends and everything was fine. No STD's from the strip clubs they visited (hehehe. that post before was pretty funny about that. if you could catch something from rubbing on boobs, we'd all be in trouble!)The only thing I ask is no prostitutes, and that he come back alive!He's got a good group of guys in his life, so I'm sure he'll have a great time. Strip clubs and all. I know I'm going to have a blast!I hope every has a great time at theres!
Strip clubs! Is that all there is? You can do better than that!