my sister is getting married and i am the maid of honor. she is a true party girl at heart and wants a limo and to basically be wasted. none of the bridesmaids, including myself drink. there is only one other girl, besides my sister who drinks. 2 of the bridesmaids will have just given birth and will be nursing so they absolutely cannot drink. i need major help with ideas for the bachelorette party. it is going to be in the summer on a weekend. the girls dont want to do a spa trip because they think it is too expensive and dont want to go bar hopping which is what the bride wants to do. what can i do so that everyone is somewhat happy!?!? helppp!
Re: major bachelorette party help needed
it sounds like none of the BM's drink and/or party, but what about your sisters friends who will be attending the bach party? if she's a true party girl, she's gotta have peeps she goes out with and i'm assuming they'll prob be there for the bachelorette party......
i would suggest something like this: meet at someones house and provide light apps/wine (so people can choose to drink or not), go to a late dinner, and then go out for a night on the town.
this way, the non-partiers can still participate but just leave early if they decide.
i've heard of people doing fun classes, like strip tease, fortune telling parties, and mini-spa stuff for around $25 per person in the Michigan area, so this can also be incorporated in somewhere too (ie in lieu of dinner, or the apps and wine part).
basically, just find a happy medium. yes, the bride doesn't get to plan her own party, but it's awfully considerate to take her opinion into consideration.
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