My MOH offerred to throw a shower for me at her home and I accepted. She has already started buying decorations, she loves to plan
I failed to look up how far away it was. She lives 1 1/2 hours from me so it's not a big deal for me personally. But it is over 2 hours from my mom and FI's mom, who live close to each other where we grew up. My extended family actually lives close to MOH. FI's mom had suggested having it at FI's dad's house instead, which offended MOH. It is near FI's mom and my mom. Is that a long way to ask people to drive for a a shower? There is really no middle as we live in different directions.