Rather than drop my last name and just use FI's, I'm trying to get it added as a second middle name (so Shannon Middlename Maiden Fiance's). Has anyone tried to do this before? I'm not sure where the best place to begin is. Just from doing a little research I've found some states require you to go before a judge to add another name. And I'm pretty sure one of those misstomrs sites would't be able to handle that kind of name change. Any suggestions?