it dawned on me last night that it's just stupid to register when i can afford to go out and buy what i want on my own. the whole thing feels like begging for presents to me, FI agrees.
it also feels antiquated, and to have to wait until we're actually married to use a coffee pot feels just ridiculous to me. FI agrees with that too.
so, we're not going to register. we're going to wait until we move into our house, and then go to the same stores and just buy what we want ourselves.
sorry if this is an unpopular opinion. the whole concept of depending on other people to buy me the items i need in life doesn't work well with my proactive life view. who needs the hassle when we can just go out and buy ourselves the things we want and need?!