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Intros, please...

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Re: Intros, please...

  • RhaetheRhaethe member
    10 Comments First Anniversary
    edited February 2013
    Wedding Date:  September 20, 2013

    # Times Previously Married:  1 (me); 1 (him)

    # Kids: 1 siberian husky :)

    How long did you and FI date?
      Been cohab'ing for 9.5 years now

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    10 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    Have just started with the planning.  We have decided we want something small and something that hearkens back to ancient ways of doing things.  I know what color dress I wish to wear, and the basic styling of the wedding party.  We know we wish to do a destination wedding in Colorado or Maine with a big ol party / bbq for all our friends once we get home.  Beyond that, nothing is yet set in stone.

    Next major project to tackle?
      Deciding on a guest list.

  • Wedding Date:  Saturday June 8, 2013!!

    # Times Previously Married:  1 for me and 3rd time for FI

    # Kids:  8 for me and 2 for FI plus a SIL and a grandbaby!!

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
     heasked at 3 months, but it wasn't official until 8 months

    How long between first date and wedding date?
     2 years 2 months

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     S Initially we were supposed to be married Sept 29 of 2012.  We called it off because we could not afford the wedding for one (I've never had one, its my dream lol) and #2 I wasn't sure I was ready. So far things have gone much smoother, and I'm GEEKED I'm going to be a June bride <3

    Next major project to tackle?
      Choosing a cake and picking menu for reception :)
    Christie + Chad ~June 8, 2013~
     CPT & mama to 9 kids, one SIL & a grandbaby girl!
  • Wedding Date:  June 29, 2013
    # Times Previously Married: 1 (me); 2 (him)

    # Kids: 2 girls (me) and 1 grandchild 1 girl (him)

    How long did you and FI date?
      5 years

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    6 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road? 
     All set with planning. Just need to keep my meddlesome family at bay, we are after all getting married at the age of 51. Family wants in on all business, not to pay for it just to give us suggestions, We have everything set, so we are happy as clams telling them, took care of that, thanks for the suggestion though. We have even sent out our Save the Dates!


    Next major project to tackle?
      need to find someone to alter my dress and buy dresses for his daughter (10). Finalize menu and cake.
  • Wedding Date:  March 14, 2014 (Yes, Pi)

    # Times Previously Married: (1) me; (None) FI

    # Kids: 1 (me): (None) FI

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
     9 months

    How long between first date and wedding date?
     2 years almost

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     We are just starting out the planning but both our leases expire this summer so we have to shove a move into the middle of planning (and saving) for the wedding. We are combining households so that will make it easier after that but moving is not cheap.

    Next major project to tackle?
      Choosing a venue. On a shoestring budget we have to find a place that can accomodate a one room reception/ceremony. Since we are going for casually elegant and the wedding, for us, is about celebrating with our families the promises we are making to each other it works for us. Still have to find one though. 
  • Wedding Date: Summer of 2014 
    # Times Previously Married:  We both were married once
    # Kids: We both have one have one child
    How long 
    did you and FI date before engagement? 1 year
    How long between first date and wedding date?
     2 years almost
    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     So far we are in the early stages. He had a actual wedding while I went to the justice of the peace (I regret that) Although, my first time around we planned and then I called it off I didn't realize how much a wedding actually cost. When my FI told me I thought "Yea right" then I started seeing it for myself then I became overwhelmed but because he's very much involved he makes it less stressful and fun.  
    Next major project to tackle?
      Choosing a vendor. We're heading out to look at one tomrrow with OUR kids. 
  • Wedding Date: April 13, 2013

    # Times Previously Married: 1 (me); 0 (FI)

    # Kids: 0

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
      4 years

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    5 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     So far, so good.  We are in the home stretch now.  Final dress fitting is next weekend.

    Next major project to tackle?
    Ceremony programs.  I'm starting to lose steam!
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  •  Wedding Date :  July 7, 2014

     # Times Previously Married: 1(it's a vow renewal for 10 year anniversary)

     # Kids: 4

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?  3 years

    How long between first date and wedding date? 4 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?  Doing ok. We went to the J.P. so this is all new to me. 

    Next major project to tackle?   The Dress! :)
  • Wedding Date:  Friday October 20,2017

    # Times Previously Married:1 (me)

    # Kids: 0

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
      2.8 yrs

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    7.4 yrs

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     So far, so good. 

    Next major project to tackle?
     Find a venue
  • edited April 2013
    Wedding Date: Aug. 21, 2014 (tentative)

    # Times Previously Married:1 (me) and 1 (him)

    # Kids: 0 fore me, SIX for him! (mostly grown)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
      1 year

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    7.5 years!

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    Omigod so complicated: first, getting my family to accept someone from another culture (relationship was "secret" for a long time). But other than that, I am having a great time with the planning!

    Next major project to tackle?
    guest list
  • Wedding Date: Sept. 7, 2013 (tentative)

    # Times Previously Married:1 (me) and 1 (him)

    # Kids: 1 (me), 3 (him)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
      2 year

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    2.5 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    Taking planning less seriously this time around than the last. I want a very relaxed and laid back wedding. So far so good even on the tight timeline!

    Next major project to tackle?
    Still trying to nail down a venue
  • Wedding Date:  Saturday July 20th, 2013

    # Times Previously Married: 1(me)
    # Kids:1 (me) 1 (FI)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement? 5 years


    How long between first date and wedding date?
    5 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     Next major project to tackle? Wedding planning is going well. Still looking foir that short white dress!! Honeymoon is booked and paid for
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  • Wedding Date:  Not set yet, but sometime in summer or fall of 2015

    # Times Previously Married:  1 (me),  0 (him)

    # Kids:  1 almost six year old daughter (me), 0 (him)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
       This sounds crazy, but 4 weeks!  His cousin has been my best friend since high school, and we had mutual crushes on each other for over a decade but where always in very different places, literally and figuratively.   I'm so glad our lives finally aligned :)

    How long between first date and wedding date?
     about 2 and a half years.

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     Haven't done any yet, so I guess I could say it's been smooth sailing so far :)

    Next major project to tackle?
      Graduating.  No real wedding planning until I'm done with school!
  • Wedding Date:  September 2014 (still deciding on a actual date right now)

    # Times Previously Married:1 (me); 0 (FI)

    # Kids: None

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
    1.5 Years

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    A little short of 3 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    So far, so good. We finally came to a compromise about how the wedding should proceed. I wanted to elope and just have the 2 of us there, he wanted a wedding since this is his first. So we're compromising and doing a small ceremony/party with just family and very close friends. Now just to decide on NC where we live or NY where we're both from and our families still live...ha ha

    Next major project to tackle?
      Picking a date and theme/colors- mainly everything since we're just starting our planning! :)
  • Wedding Date:  Dec. 14, 2013

    # Times Previously Married: Second time for both of us.

    # Kids: He has 2 girls.

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?  6 months.

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    Around 1 year and 4 months. We have known each other for about 4-5 years though.

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     We really just started getting into actually planning of the event. Going good so far. The biggest deal we have encountered was telling our families (mainly his kids). The second issue would have to be the fact we both travel for work hence the reason we just starting planning. So being together long enough to want to spend time on the event was a challenge too.

    Next major project to tackle?  Lets see...Getting the Maids of Honor (yes, there are two) and the suits for the guys squared away. Everyone is scattered across the USA...yeah for email and texting!

  • LAM524LAM524 member
    100 Love Its 100 Comments First Anniversary First Answer
    Wedding Date:  May 24, 2014

    # Times Previously Married: 2nd for both of us

    # Kids: I have 3 boys, 29, 23 & 15; FI has a son 23 & daughter 13

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
    3 years

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    a little over 4 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?

    Its going good! Had some decisions to make regarding ceremony but thanks to some knotties advice, its all worked out!!
    Next major project to tackle: Find a DJ

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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
    Eighth Anniversary 100 Comments 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited July 2013
    Wedding Date:  2.22.14

    # Times Previously Married: Once for me, Zero for fi

    # Kids: No Kids

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
     3 years

    How long between first date and wedding date?
     a little over 4 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?

    Its going good! Just in limbo about getting married at a church or not due to the annulment not going through yet.
    Next major project to tackle: Finding Limos
  • Wedding Date: Not set yet
    # of Times Married: Me 1 Him 0
    # of Kids: Me 0 Him 1 - She is the most beautiful 5 year old.
    How long did we date before engagement? 1 year 7 months
    How long between first date and wedding date? Undetermined
    How's wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    We haven't really started yet, but I see trouble brewing already. He is Catholic and wants a big church wedding, and I just don't feel comfortable with that. Right now we are just focusing on our move and job search.
    Next major project to tackle: Me moving to Dallas. FI moved to Dallas (staying with his parents right now) right after we got engaged to start his new job. I am following him in August. Hopefully, we will have a place to live. :/
  • I am Sherry A Second time bride to be and the first time planning a formal wedding. My fiancé and I have know each other for 8 years, but have been together as a couple for about 5 months. We are getting married April26,2014, @ Scarborough Fair in Waxahachie,Texas, Our Colors are red, black and silver, his ring is custom made, the dress I have picked out is Quincernera   dress  in red. The invitations we have picked out is a castle and favors, are red, and silver Hersheys in a black drawstring bag. The menu at Scarborough Fair is Turkey Legs, BBQ Sandwiches, Corn On The Cob and Fresh Fruit Salad. I have not picked out the bridesmaid outfit, flowers, cake or the grooms outfit yet. I don't know about flower ideas. I would like to incorporate something with high heel shoes in. It was nice meeting everybody, and any ideas I am open to. Thank you Sherry Parker here
  • Also, This is both of our second time to be married.
  • Rcastle77Rcastle77 member
    First Comment
    edited July 2013
    Wedding Date:  Nov 9, 2013

    # Times Previously Married: 1 (me); 2 (FI)

    # Kids: 1 (me); 2(FI)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
    Almost a year

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    2 years

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    So far, so good. We are going half casual half formal. Both of us feel that our first marriage(s) were those that were more endured and we feel this is special so we want the special look to have the pictures and the memories but we're doing it at a local legion. A friend is marrying us and we're having a buffet dinner with a band after. It's formal with a twist. My "mother" (my best friends mom who is Nana to my daughter since my mom passed away 6 years ago) is walking me down as is my daughter who is going to carry the rings in a flower girl basket :) We're only inviting some close friends and family but it's going to be a party!

    Next major project to tackle?
      Cake and flowers. I've designed the invitations as well and those need to get printed but we're chugging along.
  • Wedding Date:  november 2, 2013

    # Times Previously Married: 1 for me, this is his first marriage

    # Kids:1 (me)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
      Known each other 16 years total. But the short story is we were back together for 14 months.

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    16 years 2.5 months

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    Pretty easy.  We've been talking about it for so long we pretty much had it all planned before we set the date.

    Next major project to tackle?
    Ordering invitations today.  Then need to think about centerpieces.
  • grumbledoregrumbledore member
    2500 Comments 500 Love Its First Anniversary First Answer
    edited July 2013
    Wedding Date:  Tentatively looking at 7/12/14

    # Times Previously Married: 1 (me); 0 (FI)

    # Kids: 1 (me); 0 (FI)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
     We'll have been together 4 years this August.

    How long between first date and wedding date?
     It will be about 5 years.

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
     Right now I am just starting to put together a budget and started a savings account just for the wedding -- his only real stress seems to be how much it might cost, so I'm trying to make it a little easier on him by having some clear numbers before we officially plan.

    Next major project to tackle?
      Number crunching!

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  • Wedding Date:  Planning for 11/24/2013

    # Times Previously Married: 1 (me); 1 (FI)

    # Kids: 6 (me); 2 (FI)

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?
    The first time he asked I was told not to answer... it was within 2 wks of dating/meeting each other (which ended up being daily).

    How long between first date and wedding date?
    Just over a year.

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road?
    I had planned on one place but we have been working so much on our home that we moved it to our backyard, now I am questioning if the yard will work. Life has kind of taken over and the wedding has been pushed as a topic that we talk about but I don't see us doing much about it. I am wondering if a JP office is where it takes place.

    Next major project to tackle?
      LOL Who knows! Maybe the backyard actual location can be worked on.
  • MrsCubsfanMrsCubsfan member
    First Comment
    edited July 2013
    Wedding Date: We had a civil ceremony last month but are planning on a reception/vow renewal for 6/20/14

    # Times Previously Married: I have a 7 y.o. boy and another boy on the way for us both!!

    How long did you and FI date before engagement? A little over a year. 

    How long between first date and wedding date? 1.5 for the civil ceremony

    How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road? Well we found out I was PG the same week we were engaged! I still had my ex's last name and I will become a SAHM and need to be added to his health insurance so that is why we chose to do a civil ceremony now and reception later. Since this is his first marriage, he still very much wants his big day. And who am I kidding...I'm excited to have another celebration as well! 

    Next major project to tackle? Trying to get our vendors secured now because once baby is born in October, I know I will be a bit busy. We at least have our reception venue secured.
  • Hi! I am Cat and my fiance is Ted. We are both widowers and are set to marry on Sept. 13, 2013. This is our 2nd marriage. We each have one daughter.
  • WonderRedWonderRed member
    500 Love Its 500 Comments Second Anniversary Name Dropper
    edited August 2013
    oops, I somehow managed to answer this one twice. DOH!
  • Wedding Date: hoping for 4/12/2014 # Times Previously Married: I was widowed after 6 years of marriage. This is FI's 1st! # Kids: I have 2 from my first marriage (4&6 years old). How long did you and FI date before engagement? 3 years. How long between first date and wedding date? Hoping about 9 months, but we have to start finding available locations soon. How's the wedding planning going? Any blips or bumps in the road? I really wanted a destination wedding with just closest family and friends and the kids, but FI really wants a wedding! Since I've done this before, I really want this to be "real" for him, so looks like we now have tons of planning. Next major project to tackle? We need ceremony and reception venues set soon!
  • Wedding date not set in stone yet (for legal/tax reasons) looking at 2017. I was married 4 1/2 years, divorced.  He's never been married.  No children for either of us.   We've been together a year & a half.  No "official" engagement yet.  Looking at rings now, even looked at a hall.  Very excited to be his wife, not excited about the wedding part.  Maybe because it isn't "real" yet.
  • HI MY NAME IS CHRISTINE,
    WEDDING DATE: OCTOBER 10,2015
    #TIMES PREVIOUSLY MARRIED- BOTH OF US ONLY ONCE BEFORE
    # OF KIDS- ME,2--23YRS OLD & 19YRS OLD (HE LOOKS AT THEM AS OURS)
    DATED BEFORE ENGAGEMENT:MET IN 2/07, HAD A SYMBOLIC CEREMONEY 10/09 AND GOT ENGAGED 3/2013
    HOW LONG BETWEEN 1ST DATE AND WEDDING-8YRS
    HOWS THE PLANNING GOING- OK EXCEPT FOR MOTHER INTERUPTIONS (BOTH OF THEM)
    NEXT MAJOR PROJECT-BOOK THE FLORIST/PHOTOGRAPHER/DJ FOR JAN WHEN WE HAVE TO MEET WITH VENUE WITH EVERYTHING BOOKED

  • Wanted to Introduce myself, I'm new here but not to TK or TB. 

    Wedding Date:  June 2, 2014


    Times Previously Married:1 (me); 0 (FI)

    Kids: I have a son and a daughter, he doesn't have any children 

    How long did you and FI date before engagement?  we dated exactly a year before he proposed, but we knew each other and had been good friends for 10 years prior. 

    How's the wedding planning going? Slow, but steady. We're doing a destination wedding. 


    Next major project to tackle?  Save the Dates and Invitations. 

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