I just lost my dad, with my wedding being in 6 weeks. Since this is a second marriage for both of us, our kids are going to walk us down the isle.
But I want to honor and remember my dad, without causing my mom too much pain. I love the ideas I have seen, but my mom couldn't handle a empty seat next to her or a picture to put a flower on.
I do think I will do the charm on my flowers, for me alone to know is there.
We are getting married on the water, any thoughts of something we could do in his honor.
Thank you.
Re: Memorial for my dad?
This might be really "out there" but if you're getting married on the water, I'd send him a message in a bottle.
Thank you, It is hard to think and plan knowing my dad won't be there...since it is our second marriage we have planned our honeymoon for Vegas and invited our parents, and knowing he won't be there for that is hard too.
I love the message in a bottle idea. Thank you so much.
I purchased small frame/lockets online from Michael's, and am putting my brother's and Fiance's dad's pics in 2 to attach to my bouquet. We are also doing memorial candles, but I totally understand how you might not want to do the candles so close.
If I were you, I'd ask my Mom how any of these "memorials" would affect her. She's going to be sad anyway, I know my Mom would be. It might be that she'd like to have you do something.
Those who could not be with us here today, we would like to recognize, that they live on in the hearts of BrideName and GroomName. They are here with us today, if only in our hearts, watching as we celebrate this blessed union. Let us take a few moments to remember and honor NAMES here, and any other loved ones who are not able to join us today...
I lost my son last year and the way I found to honor him is with a locket attached to my bouquet, an empty seat with a flower on it, and a special mention in the program along with my parent's - both deceased - and FI's father. I know that from heaven where he is, he will be smiling upon us, like your father will be smiling upon you as well!