Just had the dress fitting for my wedding coming up in about six weeks. Like so many of you have posted, I love my dress but worry about looking OK in it and it being second wedding appropriate. My 21 year old and 16 year old daughters were with me. As we were examining the hem of my dress (I have a knee length ivory dress), I commented about whether the length was ok. I said "I don't want to look frumpy."
My 21 year old said "Mom, on a scale of 0 to frumpy, you're at a minus 4!" Bless her!