POLL: Help what should I do?

right1thistime

Actually, when I found myself fantasizing about how wonderful my life would be if my xH would just DIE, I knew that it was time to divorce him. 
~Donna

Marrin713

R1TT - I did fantasize about it myself, but would immed. think "what the hell is wrong with you!?"  But yeh, it was certainly an indication that all was not well in the Kingdom of Us.

AbbeyS2011

Right1TT - I had those thoughts too.  About a year after the ex and I had divorced and I was living in a tiny apartment complex, one of my neighbors and friends told me her son's biological father had just died.  First words out of my mouth was "Why could that not have been my ex?"  Sad but true. 

Marrin:  I absolutely LOVE your Utah comment, and I wholeheartedly agree - polygamy should not be gender specific.  Why can't I have 3 or 4 husbands at once?  They could build me a house so I can go around a visit them whenever the mood seizes me! (Sister Wives, anyone?) LOL

right1thistime

Abbey - I have said for YEARS that I need a wife.  I would like a SAHW/M.  To do the cooking, cleaning, house care, child running to practice/dance/scouts/camp/doctor/dentist and so on.  I HAD a SAHH/D - but I didn't like that so much - since I still did all the work on my days "off".  (To be fair - xH was a pretty good Dad.) 

I don't want a sister wife, though.  I am NOT sharing DH.  I want the wife completely devoted to me.  ~Donna

Marrin713

I want a wife too!  I am more than happy to work and work and work and bring home that bacon as long as someone else will fry it up in the pan.  I do not like anything domestic.  Oh once in a while the mood will grab me and I'll experiment with cooking or I'll get fed up and do a REAL clean, but on the whole I really wish I could afford cleaning people again.