My knot has been acting screwy for a long time, so I don't mean to be on a vent roll but I have been having this sh*t build for a while.
Basically, my family is super traditional. Including my great aunts and uncles that aren't really accepting of "Alternative" lifestyles.
I am paranoid that they are going to say something rude to my FI's sister who lives an "alternative" lifestyle.
I don't want her to be offended. But I also love htem, and love them regardless of whether or not they can accept differences that people have int he world- openly now, that might now have been so open before.
My mom said that I should ask my fiances sister not to wear a tux to the wedding out of respect to the above said family members.
I think that;s disrespectful to HER.
I mean she should dress as she pleases.
She thinks some of my older relatives will be turned off, and the entire wedding will be focused on that- rather than what the day is aout- love, marriage, commitment.
I really can't ask her that. THAT"S unbelievebale that my mom even said that.
She is just trying to "keep the peace"
I refused and said people can wear what they want to wear, they can bring a man, woman, iguana, or leprechuan to the wedding ias a date if they want-- now my mom is pissed at me.
My mom said most people would understand where she is coming from, its respect of Elders.
It hink shes insane and I'm right
Ok vents over. I don't know how to meet my mom in the middle on this one.
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