I am getting married in a year, and I DO NOT want my sister as my MOH. We are not close at all, and never have been. I was actually shocked when she asked me to be her MOH a few years ago. My parents like to think our family is all lovey and close and that my sister and I are best friends, and they know that we are not. What should I do? I was thinking of just not designating a MOH, because my finance isn't... he has the same issue with his brother.