i need some help.
my FMIL is very...shall we say "fashion challenge"
for example: i attended My Fiance's cousins wedding with her and although its was a casual wedding, she looked a little to casual... it looked like she threw on some clothes real quick to go shopping at WalMart...[actully i would even go to walmart in the outfit] she had on a dark blueish collared button up shirt that was about 3 sizes too big on her . . . on blue jeans [which werent really that bad] exept on leg was tucked in to her black UGG style boots [but being boot cut jeans the were all wrinkly where they were tucked in] and the other leg was hald tucked and half out. she never wears makeup and her hair is never ever fixed. . . .
the point of all that was to say...
I AM ABSOULTLY TERRIFIED OF WHAT SHE IS GOING TO WEAR TO MY WEDDING.! with her being the MOG shes goign to be in alot of pics and and be slightly envoled in the ceremony and i really dont want her to look bad. and i def dont want to look back at my wedding pics of our families and remember her dressing like shes about to go grocery shopping....
so my question is [sorry i tend to ramble]:
how to i bring this up to her or my Fiance with out offending her.
a friend of mine suggested i bring her shopping for the outfit and just make it seem like i want to spend time with her....however ...me and her don't really have a great relationship.. so that would seem kinda odd. also she's not really the shopping type... so i cant pass it off as just a day of reg shopping.
PLEASE HELP