My Maid Of Honor and I have been best friends for 18 years now. I have told her since i was 8 years old she would be my Maid of Honor. When my fiance proposed she seemed very excited and was happy for us. We are getting married in 71 days and have been engaged since this past July. My maid of honor has not helped plan the shower or bachelorette party. Instead of being there for me and supporting me through this STRESSFUL time she has done nothing! She is going on a family vacation the week of my wedding and has to come in one day early for my wedding day. She refuses to come in earlier for my rehearsal dinner. I dont know if I am over exaggerating or if I am right to be hurt and upset! anyone else having the same issues!?