So my brother's high school just changed their graduation date as the same day as my wedding. The way it's looking, my family won't get to my wedding until 30 minutes to an hour before it starts. I orignially wanted a first look and an early evening ceremeony. My mom wanted me to change the wedding date (impossible, I've paid at least 7 vendors), then get rid of the first look and take wedding pictures after (my brothers are in the wedding party). While all of this upset me, the MOST upsetting is my mom not really caring if she's there while I get ready for my wedding. She keeps telling me that I am being "too emotional" and need to be rational, that getting ready for the wedding isn't the important part. This waaaay upset me. Am I totally overreacting?