So my sister is my matron of honor and my bff was my maid of honor in the summer. After drama issues, she told me she didnt want to be in my wedding so we are not friends anymore. I promoted my cousin from bridesmaid to maid of honor. Now im in the same position as before. My MOH, cousin Jackie, does not want to do anything. She doesnt want to give a speech, and i was fine with that. Then she said she cant afford to buy anything for the bachloreette party, bridal shower and anything that included $$$. Now she doesnt want to do the bridesmdaids dance. Not because she is shy or doesnt like it.. She doesnt want to do it because she doesnt FEEL like it.
I told her if she doesnt want any resposbilities that she can be a bridemsaid and i can have another one of my good friends be promoted to MOH. She told me shes not sure yet what she wants to do.
So what should i do??? We need her for the dance because we are in pairs. If shes not in the dance, we have to re-choreograph it. And if shes not reliable now, she might not be reliable later on for the more important stuff. She is my cousin and I love her. I dont want this to ruin our relationship. But if shes not going to help me then she doesnt deserve to be the MOH. Any suggestions?