So...I am the MOH in my best friends wedding this June, and she is my MOH for my wedding which is a week later. This Saturday is her bridal shower, which I am hosting, and she is hosting my bridal shower next weekend. We have been best friends since we were like 6 as have our families.
Enter the guilt...being friends as long as we have, our families have many of the same friends. Well over the last 4 years my MOH has had some rough patches and a lot of family things going on, so the relationships with many of these family friends have suffered. We have about 6 people (not including our parents) that have been invited to both showers, but the same 6 people are attending my shower and not hers. I'm not sure if I should talk to her about it before the shower and let her know how I am feeling, or if I should let things be. My fear is that the showers will be awkward with these 6 people not attending her shower this weekend, but attending mine the next. The guilt is really getting to me...Is it a justified feeling, or am I worried about nothing?