my Mom and FMIL are thowing a joint shower for me and i'm terrified of it.
my stepmother (whom is paying a large chunk of my wedding) and my Mom (whom is paying for my cake) are going to be in a room together for the first time in 15 years. my mother, whom has been a drama llama from the beginning of this wedding process, hates my stepmom and two of the aunts that are coming. She is not the "play nice for 2 hours" kind of person, more of the "dump a drink on this b!t(h" type.
i'm so excited to have m shower and see my sisters and friends all together but i'm so nervous on how my mom is going to act. does anyone have any adive (other than "she's an adult, let her act however she wants") for me on how to run interference on her mouth. i'm having nightmares of pulled hair and dicrediting people's gift choices.