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jessicasteph113

Recently all of my friends have been getting married, we are in our mid twentys and its that time fo year. Honsetly all my friends do is talk about each other behind each others backs, gossip about complain about weddings and bachlorett parties and showers. I thought we were such a differnt group of friends but after moving away I find my self very disapointed in the friendship we all have. Also I lost one of my cousins tragicly and since then my family has also not been the same. OPTIONS: I debate having just one cousin as my MOH and pay for her dress because she otherwise would not be able to afford it, and hope that it wouldnt hurt my other two cousins feelings or just have my three cousins and no friends. OR HAVE NO ONE AT ALL.... I always thought I would be able to have my best friend 2 other very good friends and three cousins, but it seams that these people do not care or have love for me the way I do for them and I dont want to deal with the gossip and back biting ... what do you think?

Callmefia

I would have your one cousin as MOH. You don't need a huge bridal party and it is OK to have one cousin and not the other two. Do what makes you happy.

Sorry to hear about your tragic loss and the troubles with your friends. Sounds like you are close with your cousins - I have said to my younger cousins when they are having troubles with their girlfriends at school (high school age) that friends come and go, but family is forever. I know this isn't true in everyone's case but it has been in mine, and I hope for you too.

Good luck!

pkontk

I would also stick to your cousin.  If she already has a dress she likes, she can just wear that, so she is comfortable and you don't need to pay for a dress.

amsta911

You should do what would bring the least stress for you. If you just want your cousin or no one, that is perfectly ok. It's your wedding and you can do what you want.