My soon to be MIL reserved our honeymoon suite and raved abt how she wanted us to have the best. My fiance was supposed to do this but she took over. When I called to pay for the room I found out she also booked a suite for her and her husband right across the hall. She failed to mention this to me. Is this weird or am I just over thinking it? I kinda wanted it to be a private time for my fiance and I.
Re: MIL practically in honeymoon suite
We were able to make changes since the hotel rooms were all in our block. You might be able to talk to the hotel and ask if an adjustment might be made so that there is more space between the room . If it will make you more comfortable, it would be worthy asking. It was definitely helpful for DH and I; our hotel room was "home base" for us before our wedding and having some physical and mental space from everyone else helped a lot.
[QUOTE]When daughter was married last summer, she booked the wedding night in the same hotel we were staying. I asked the hotel (Washington Hilton Conevtion Center) to book her room on the opposit side of ours. <strong>Maybe they could handle that king of closeness, but her Dad couldn't!
</strong>Posted by CMGr[/QUOTE]
Love that!
Did she know that the suites were right across from each other? Did she book it this way purposefully?
I know a lot of brides and grooms that have a romantic wedding night but many couples also do nothing the night of their wedding. Many couples are too tired or had a few to many drinks and just go to their rooms and pass out.
I know right now that this may seem like a huge deal but it isn't like you are sharing a suite with his parents and it isn't like the suites are connected by a door and I highly doubt his parents will be standing right outside your door with drinking glasses trying to listen in.
Since you and your FI will be alone in your own room it will be private. You have to remember that you are in a hotel and no matter what room you are in you could have "neighbors" on either side of you.
In practice though, you'll probably not notice. Hotels, especially nicer ones, are decently soundproofed, especially across the hall, so once you get into your room, put up the "Do Not Disturb" sign and don't worry about it.
I'd still try to move the room if you can based on principle, but if they aren't able to, then I wouldn't worry about it too much. I'd still have your FI talk to his mom either way about you wanting privacy on your wedding night.
[QUOTE]I've rarely heard anyone have sex so loud that it can be heard through two sets of walls and across a hallway over conversation/television/whatever. If you honestly think that could be the case, I would prepare yourselves to be interruped by hotel security anyway.
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]
You should meet some of the people I shared floors with in college dorms. ;)
I'm sure the hotel can move you around so you are futher away and have a bit more privacy.
[QUOTE]My soon to be MIL reserved our honeymoon suite and raved abt how she wanted us to have the best. My fiance was supposed to do this but she took over. When I called to pay for the room I found out she also booked a suite for her and her husband right across the hall. She failed to mention this to me. Is this weird or am I just over thinking it? I kinda wanted it to be a private time for my fiance and I.
Posted by pinewee[/QUOTE]
Ummmm, that would definitely be weird to me. I wouldn't want to be anywhere near my family or the IL's on my wedding night.
It <em>should</em>be private time for you and FI and having the MIL across the hall doesn't really seem private at all. Is there any way out of this??