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FI and I are abstaining before we get married.
Fi and I were both virgins when we met. I was waiting for marriage; he was waiting for the right girl. I'd never really done ANYTHING (I'd barely even kissed) before him. About half a month after we got engaged, I decided I didn't want to wait any longer. He wanted to make sure I was really ready, because he would have felt horrible if I wasn't. Silly as it may sound, I asked him if we could go ahead and say marriage vows before we did it. He thought it was a good idea, so we did, and it was very special. And I am glad to know that he's the only guy I'll ever have sex with (double bonus that he was a virgin too, bc neither of us had anything to compare it to).And since then, I've learned how much I like sex. And we've done the whole abstaining for special times thing, and it just made sex short (as Aerin mentioned) and not nearly as fun as it should have been. Plus, I highly doubt either of us will want to go without (especially since we've been doing it pretty much every day since we moved in together).And I imagine we'll be too exhausted the night of, so I think morning of sex sounds awesome too
Such a late response on this forum. Ha
I'm getting married August 2014, I never planned to "cut off" my fiancé but I did. I can't tell him any details because I want a surprise.
(I'm having my zipper glued so he can just rip it off)
So I want the anticipation to build before the wedding...
Do you think that should me I should "cut him off" from four play too? Or only sex?