I am having a large, but casual wedding on the lake that friends of the family own. And we are then having the reception in a tent at the local country club. We are planning for a 4pm ceremony and a 6pm dinner. A majority of the guests are from out of town, but as everything is taking place within 5 miles of the other and the hotel is on site at the reception location, I am wondering if we have to have a cocktail hour - I know its the proper thing to do, especially with the out of town guests, but I know most of my family will just hang out at the lake and chitchat after the ceremony and not need any special to-do to keep them occupied for the 1.5 hours between end of ceremony and dinner.
My other issue is that the cocktail hour would have to take place outside the tent as there is no other space to do it (except inside the tent which will be set up for the reception) which is fine if the weather cooperates, but not if it doesn't.
Do you think I should still do the cocktail hour??