I wasn't sure where to post this post. I couldn't find a "My wedding is falling apart" board so here it goes:
I'm having a lot of issues with my wedding. I'm supposed to be getting married August 4th and I don't have my venue yet. We have the money for it, but we are getting married at a still open Playhouse and they aren't the best about answering phone calls. And because we don't have our venue booked, my future mother-in-law won't order the invitations because what if we don't get the venue (which I understand completely.) On top of that, some people are telling us we should look into a different venue but this is where I want to get married. And, on top of THAT, my family doesn't seem to be very supportive financially speaking. They're all for the wedding, and they love my fiancee. But no one seems to be willing to help out with things like tables and chairs and decorations.
My fiancee and I have talked about possibly postponing the wedding to August 4th of next year, but I don't really want to do that. It's coming down to where it's our only option though. I don't see how we will have a wedding in 2 and a half months if we don't even have our venue yet. I have become so overwhelmed with all of this that I am not even excited for my wedding now. I'm actually starting to dread it because I feel it will never happen.
I just need some supportive talk for once. Is postponing the wedding a bad thing or a good thing? Or should I just have a tiny elopement ceremony and be done with it all?