Okay, so my parents got divorced when I was really young and he moved across the country. My mom remarried when I was 3 and my step dad has raised me. I call him dad and my real dad by his first name. He has been in my life but not very much. He doesn't know much about me and it is always very awkward when we talk. Now all of a sudden, he wants to spend all this money and contribute to my wedding (which i'm not complaining about). But now I am stuck because I know he is going to want to be a part of it. My step dad has said that he is okay with both of them walking me down but that is not what I want. I've considered having him walk me half way and then hand me over to my step dad but i don't know if that is tacky. And then there is the issue of father daughter dances.....i would appreciate any pointers!!! Thanks ladies!