Alright ladies, I will break my questions into paragraphs to make it easier. The run down is this: My parents are divorced and both are remarried. Keep in mind both parents remarried by the time I was 5. I will be 27 by the time I am married. I call my step dad; dad and my biological father dad. I love both of them very much and want both of them involved EQUALLY. I also have a step mother, and obviously a mother. My step mother is a really good person but she has come into this "knowing" everything about weddings. She has been to a ton and has obvisouly been married once. My mother has been married twice and has been to a ton of weddings. Everyone had their opinions and traditions right? So here are my questions and dillemas:
I wanted both of my dads to give me away. My step dad thought it was a neat idea, my bio dad said no way. So, I am going to have my bio dad give me away and my dad walk with my son down the aisle. I dont understand what the big deal is about having both of them give me away. They both helped me get to where I am today.
Father daughter dance; obviously I will have two of them. My step dad asked that since my bio dad is giving me away, that he have the first father daughter dance. I am reallllly nervous about bringing this up to my bio dad...
When going to the ceremony who does the bride ride with? My step mother says that the bride goes with her father to the ceremony site. I disagree, I feel as though the bride rides with the brides maids.
What do you all think??