Help My BM just QUIT

MsFlicka

Well, here's my judgy moment of the day, but I think it's nice to see at least one of you has priorities straight. You're 22 years old, trying to support your own little baby, living on approximately $200 a week....and you're throwing away money on a wedding????? Yes. And if I had to choose between taking 2 weeks vacay and being in a friends wedding, vacay would win. Every time. Hands down. Vacations are a mental health NECESSITY. Wearing some cheesy matching dress to prove my girl-love for someone is not.

matilda1215

Have you talked to her since she texted you? You may have already addressed this and I just skimmed over it. I understand that you are frustrated. However, she was obviously a person who was important enough for you to ask to be apart of your wedding, so I don't think completely cutting her off is the right choice to make. Yes you should invite her to the wedding.  And I think after you've calmed down a little you should get together with her and see what's going on in her life.