I am in a wedding next spring and the Bride has decided she wants to go away for a weekend this fall for her Bach party, NYC,Boston,Vegas. We are all in our early to mid 30's, have families, mortgages etc....I bascially live paycheck to paycheck. Some of the BM's do have expendable $ and would be able to do this and I think thats why the bride thinks its a good idea. I just cant but dont want to upset the bride. I would like to do something for her local, nice dinner pedicures etc but spending $300 plus is not something I can do......How would you nicely say you cant......