We're trying to figure out our wedding party and I dont' know why this idea didn't occur to us earlier. I have 3 friends and my sister as BMs and FI has his brother and 1 friend on his side. He wanted me to have his sister as a BM, but I didn't want us to be THAT uneven (5 and 2). Originally we just weren't going to have her in the WP but it just occured to us: just have her stand up on his side! I know people do this, but I have a bunch of questions:
1) We already asked the other attendants and she knows she wasn't asked yet (and she was okay with it, just wanted us to be happy). Is it weird to ask her now? Do you think she will be offended? I'm hoping she'll be happy and realize we were just dumb to not think of this before.
2) what is she called? A groomswoman? How do we put her in the program?
3) what should she wear? I was thinking a black dress in the same style as the BMs dresses.
4) do I need to get her a bouquet?
5) is it okay to have her walk out with a BM? That is the only time she'll be paired off.
Any other advice from people who have done this before? Thanks!