Bridesmaid.MOH

Princesslilyluv

Girls, Girls, Girls!!!! I appreciate all the input and advice that you ALL gave me! I did tell my FI some of the advice, and showed him pics of the advice. He may be a groomzilla in his own little way, but I know he has a picture in his head, just like I do. I mean, afterall, it is the biggest day in our lives!! Of course, followed by one day when we have a child! But, thats another story.... we are not in that chapter yet!

He is more open to the idea now, of having the girls dress in black, and be different styles. I couldn't have explained it any better to him without all of your help!

Its funny, that I got my FI to agree, yet one of my bridesmaids told me that I should reconsider the black, because when I look back at photos I won't see "a funeral look rather than a wedding look". I just laughed at her. I mean, I could make their life hard! I thought they would be happy!! I just want them all to have fun, and be comfortable! Anyway, she will need to deal with it, because I am NOT changing my mind!

Thanks for all the advice!

Princesslilyluv

Thank you, bablingbrooke, at least you knew what I meant. I did tell my BM's to wear the same color - black - and to choose their own style, so that the can be happy and they can be comfortable.

Also, Manwa, as far I as I am concerned, these posts are nothing but words.I wrote my question because I thought it would be a great way to get advice, and it was!  You do not know me personally, so to say that I am acting like a tyrant, or spoiled... it CRACKS me up! My wedding will be ONE of the most important days of my life.... followed by MANY more. I am looking forward to spending everyday with my soon to be future husband. I will be spending money and time planning this wedding to make sure that we HAVE FUN, so what does it matter anyway if I write a post on here with a question? To have someone like you tell me I am acting a certain way??? PLEASE!! I watch bridezillas, and I am far from one. Anyway, Manwa, you need your own blog. You are hysterical.