Okay so I have been lurking on these boards for a couple of months now and haven't really posted, but FI and I have an issue that we can't talk to friends/family about. Last night, his best man told FI that he has feelings for him. Like, more than a friend, I want us to be together feelings. I have suspected for some time that BM is gay, but FI insisted that there was no way because they check out girls together and always did "guy" stuff. He is really thrown off about it, but says he still wants to be friends with BM, but he doesn't want to feel like he is leading him on and doesn't really know how to handle the situation. Should we just continue on with our relationship with him and pretend like nothing has changed, or do we distance ourselves from BM? It's not to be mean, I've had problems with other girls trying to come between our relationship, but never a man so I'm kind of at a loss about what to do. Thanks in advance for any advice/insight anyone can offer.