MOH NOT allowing best man to attend bachelor party- where is my place?

SarahPLiz

Your refusal to let this go and let the BM and MOH deal with their own marital issues makes me think that YOU are the control freak here.
YOU want to control how your friend treats HER husband.
YOU want the BM to go to the b-party
YOU want to dictate how your friend should be feeling about HER marriage and HER husband.

My view of you is reinforced by the fact that your FI and the BM have asked you to take control of the situation. Perhaps both you and your MOH picked doormats to marry, because you both like to be in control.

THis is NOT your problem. It is an issue between your MOH and his BM. You chose wrong and you need to deal with it, but you have NO right to tell them how to live and what sort of relationship to have. Its not the end of the world if the BM doesnt go to the b-party. If it was, he would stand up for himself. YOur marriage will not be invalidated because the BM didn't attend the b-party, I promise.

Leave it alone. Its not your business and its not your place. You are the person that CAUSES problems in relationships, because you stick your nose where it doesn't belong.