i have 4 straight male bridesmaids and 7 females (kind of rediculous i know). I dont think its fair to my ladies that the boys' only job is to show up in a tux, the day of and call it a day. But, im not too sure what to have them do or if anyone has any ideas for something different or unique for them to get more involved? Also, should i invtive them to my shower? help please!