I see a lot of posts on here about how brides' MOHs, BMs, or other friends or family members try to make everything "all about them" and constantly take the spotlight off the bride.
I get it. We all know those people.
But I want to tell you something... it doesn't work. It feels crappy when it's happening to you, but please, breathe. Calm down. And ignore it.
Rest assured, the person in question may be getting a fraction of a second of negative attention, but then people get bored and annoyed. And in the end, YOU are the bride. YOU are the one getting and opening gifts at your shower, YOU are the one trying on the big fluffy white dress, YOU are the one who has the last say on flowers, invitations, decor, and most importantly your groom! YOU are the one everyone's partying for at your bachelorette party, and YOU are the one on your wedding day in the big white dress, traipsing down the aisle, and getting married.
So you can relax. Really.
I don't care if your friend/family member/MOH/BM shows up naked and turns cartwheels at any of the wedding-related events, she still won't be the center of attention. YOU will.
And there's nothing she can do about it!