I am Getting married May 26, 2012. I come from a mexican background and in my wedding i will be having my neice, who will be 5, walk down the aisle carrying my Tail. and my nephew will be the ring bearer he is going to be 3. When i asked my brother and his gf if my neice and nephew could be in the wedding they said Yes. Next day i get a text from brother saying his gf who he lives with and has been with for 4yrs is hurt that I did not ask my other 2 nephews (which are her kids from her prev. relationship they are 7&8). I feel bad because it was not my intention to hurt her feelings and i just feel that there is no part in the wedding for them. I however have 2 other lil girls in the wedding which are playing the part of passing out the wedding favors (they are 6&8). They will be walking down the aisle and I figured maybe have them be Jr. bridesmaids and the boys Jr. Groomsmen? Im stuck because my Fiance says no, to just leave the wedding party as it is. What do i Do?