My FI and I will be married in July 2012. I did not want my BMs (or his GM) to have to handle things at the last minute so we held a meeting in August this year telling them about all the plans for the wedding. Specifcally, I told my BMs what dress they needed to purchase, how much it was and by what date they needed to order it. Which was Nov. 2011. (the bridal shop is very busy). I thought this was more than enough time for them to prepare. Needless to say, 4 of them still have not ordered their dresses, including my MOH. I extended the deadline to Dec.1 and asked them to contact me if they were not going to be able to meet that deadline. Still no orders and no contact. I have tried my hardest to be patient with them. They all say that I will be a bridezilla. I'm trying very hard not to be but I don't know how else to get results. I really dont know what to do at this point. Can anyone give advice? Were you in a similar situation?