I haven't been on the Knot in quite a while--my wedding was last May. But I popped back on today... bored at work... you know how it goes.
Anyway, I saw the typical "Your bridesmaids do NOT have duties" post... and I started wondering...
Am I the only person in the world who thinks this is NOT true?!
I had bridesmaids who helped, and bridesmaids who didn't. It was fine. I didn't get mad, but I certainly appreciated the ones who did help. I understand why some couldn't--far away, no money, etc. But I'm standing up as a maid of honor in two of my friends' weddings later this year, and never would I think that "all I have to do is wear a dress, walk down the aisle, and smile," like what seems to be the common opinion on here. I plan to help plan both of their showers, bachelorette parties, and help with anything else I can.
I feel like that's a pretty crappy think to do to your friend--not care enough to help out or be involved when she's asked you to stand up in her wedding.
Just my own humble opinion though. Wondering if anyone else was with me.