I just need some advice with a situation with one of my bridesmaids. When I met with my maids to talk about the dress I told them they could all pick their own dress because I did not care if they wore the same one. I only gave them two "rules" to follow: 1) the dress had to be navy blue and 2) no cleavage. Well when I went with them to buy their dresses one of my girls asked the sales lady if she could put extra bra cups in so she can maximize her cleavage. The sales lady said yes and that she just has to talk with the seamstress when the dresses come in. I know I should have said something right then and there, but I was really taken a back and at a loss for words. Now I am not sure how to approach the subject. On one side, my girls paid for their dresses so I think they have a right to decide what alterations they get, but on the other hand I really don't want any cleavage because I don't think it looks classy in wedding photos. I really don't think asking my bridesmaids to be conservative is too much to ask, but I really don't know how to bring this up with her.