okay so my wedding is almost in 100 days (I have prolonged this decision as long as possible) and I am sooo stressed out about the decision of whether or not to have a ring bearer and flower girl. Mega Mega stressed..to the point I can not think anymore about it..I will try to explain my thoughts about this decision:Okay so the ring bearer would be my godson which he would almost be 3 -i worry if that is too young.. My flower girl will do just fine..The problem is that I want it to be adult reception and the ring bearers parents told me that they feel uncomfortable having someone pick him up after the church part. (reception different location) Also, my maid of honor is the mother of the flower girl and the ring bearers mother is my Brides maid also and his father is also standing up as a best man. So if the attendants bring their children (ring bear and flower girl) to the reception part then they will have to take care of them and I just want them to be stress free and have nothing to take care of.. ugh!!!!!!! I dont know what to do.. My options are to not have any at all (which my mother in law to be would I know kinda be upset as she wants my godson to be the ring bearer) or to have them at the church part and hopefully someone will pick them up to babysit after the church part is done...(but like i said earlier his parents feel uncomfortable asking the babysitter to pick him up at church) which would need to happen as all the wedding party is getting into party buss to take us to the church..or just have the ring bearer and flower girl be allowed to come to the reception part..and I just suck it up that theirs children there and maybe another family member can take them their as everyone else will be in the party buss.. Again sorry for all these details...my head is seriously spinning..Im worring about this one. any ideas or thoughts...