Hey knotties, I need some help! I'm marrying a second generation Chinese man in June. His parents have lived in the US since the 60s. They've been very supportive and said for us to have an American wedding our way, but I'm worried they are being polite. Can anyone give me a quick rundown on a few things and any big no-nos?
1. Is wearing black bad luck at a wedding? Thinking of putting my BMs in black and champagne.
2. When do you typically do a tea ceremony in an American wedding? Rehearsal dinner or at the wedding? Do you do it privately or with everyone?
3. My mother in law to be mention potentially changing into a Chinese wedding dress. When do most people in an American wedding do this? After the cake is cut? Earlier? Later? Could I wear it to the rehearsal dinner instead or is that a bad idea?