Please don't flame me as I know it's frowned about, but I had to for the sake of a HUGE misunderstanding that could have led to a lot of stress. If you need a better explanation, email me a alicek529 AT gmail DOT com. Situation UPDATE: FI is off at work now but is picking up a phone with new minutes for us to call people with. Before we could even call, however, our photographer facebook msged us to tell us that someone actually sent him what I said in my post (eeps!). He never got emails to either address (you were all right, of course!). I guess our emails don't like each other. He was super quick to fix the situation as soon as he found out, gave us a better way to communicate with him while we were overseas, and really sounded kind of bummed to hear that we even thought for a second he wasn't giving us 100% effort. ::sigh:: I knew we loved him. We booked him way before we even booked our venue, or anything for that matter, because we were convinced early on that he'd deliver. I feel kind of stupid now -- sorry for the random outburst of bridezilla-ness! I need to save those for the Chinese family/wedding problems I'm sure to experience as the time gets closer.