So I recently asked my BM if they would be in my WP and now I am starting to feel like maybe I should have taken a little more time to think about who i asked...
I have 2 twin girls (one who lives on the other side of the country) and the other lives where i do as does my MOH. Now everytime i try to get a hold of the twin who lives here to help me with ANYTHING she blows me off! It's irritating honestly, and if i cant depend on her to help me now..I'm afraid I wont be able to a month, a week, a day before my wedding! FI says kick her, but they arent the best of friends anyway so he couldnt care less if she didnt come, I;m struggling to figure something out....any suggestions?
PS i've tried to talk to BM about trying to be more helpful, but she doesnt see her lack of participation as any problem- she doesnt really seem to care that she's blowing me off.